1. "The truth is, words are never accidental."
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Karen Ehman, Keep It Shut: What to Say
2. "Our words are powerful, and they have consequences."
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Karen Ehman, Keep It Shut: What to Say
3. "Bruises fade and bones heal, but a scorched heart may take years to mend."
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Karen Ehman, Keep It Shut: What to Say
4. "Listening is more than just being quiet for a moment. It’s not just the pause we were talking about earlier. Listening includes paying attention to the whole person, and especially their emotions."
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Karen Ehman, Keep It Shut: What to Say
5. "Listening requires attending to the other person’s heart."
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Karen Ehman, Keep It Shut: What to Say
6. "Take the advice I sometimes have to give to myself: Don’t say something permanently painful just because you are temporarily ticked off."
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Karen Ehman, Keep It Shut: What to Say
7. "So if we have a mouth problem, in actuality what we really have is a mind and heart issue."
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Karen Ehman, Keep It Shut: What to Say
8. "The mouth speaks what the heart has stored."
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Karen Ehman, Keep It Shut: What to Say
9. "Remember, possessing feelings of anger isn’t wrong. What is wrong is when we allow them to fester and then we choose to fight."
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Karen Ehman, Keep It Shut: What to Say
10. "Don’t say something permanently painful just because you are temporarily ticked off."
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Karen Ehman, Keep It Shut: What to Say